[yukitouya]

i guess everyone takes their own time to get over their first loves, and after six years, i'm glad to say i can think of you, of us, and not be filled with what-ifs or if-onlys. i guess it's really true what they say, that time can dull many things, while softening others. now, i can remember our past fondly.

i doubt you will ever read this. since me, you have had two girlfriends to date. and for a long time, i wasnt really sure what to make of it. are you gay trying to go straight? or bi? or what? then i realized i didnt have to know. and i chose to believe it was real between us, what we had. i guess i chose the easier way out. i never had any status, many would perhaps scorn at that. perhaps this is a small issue to many people, but it was important to me, and this i also have resolved.

i hear of people remaining friends with their exs, and part of me really envy them for being able to do that. you and i, we were never able to achieve that. it was so tedious and we finally decided that it was not worth the effort. i think that when two people get too close, they see the best as well as the worst side of each other, and sometimes this is hard to reconcile with just being ordinary friends. maybe one day in the future, this will be possible. then i look forward to that day.

though i still cannot find it in myself to see you happy with her, though it be the nobler path, i nevertheless hope you might find your happiness somehow, even if it excludes me. in my triumph, i stole your first kiss, not some girl with a short skirt.

[Topaz^]

For my ex... I HAVE FOUND MY TRUE LOVE!

And i believe u will find ures one day real soon too!

[gz69]

swankiboi,

That was indeed well-written. Reminds me of those sad Indonesian love songs. Maybe you should turn your post into a song.

Best wishes.

[swankiboi]

sayangku ....

maafkan aku jika selama ini aku tidak mampu memberikan kebahagian kepadamu. bahtera cinta kita tidak lagi seutuh menara kuala lumpur. tanpa kita sedari, ia runtuh.

...., dalam tidak sedar, sudah lama kisah cinta kita dibawa masa. rupa-rupanya cintamu dirampas orang ketiga. jelas dimataku kau bahagia dengannya. apakah kehebatan dia sehingga boleh menggoyahkan cintamu terhadapku. walaupun pada hakikatnya hati ini terluka. janji-janji manis mu dulu rupa-rupanya hanya kosong belaka.

...., sayangku kepadamu tidak pernah hilang walaupun kau bukan lagi miliku. kuatnya cintamu dalam diriku. pulanglah, ku berjanji akan menjadi yang terbaik untukmu. haruskah aku terus menanti dirimu setiap masa.

walaupunkau tiada disisiku,akan ku jejakimi dimana jua hingga ke akhir masa. pulanglah cinta hatiku dan aku milikmu...

This post has been edited by swankiboi: 17 June 2005 - 06:29 PM

[Integrity]

Let's write words of appreciation for ex-BF.

[SiMpLe...]

Hmmm guess i still can learn something from my ex....

it is also a gd thing that my bf and my ex can chat with each other...

This post has been edited by SiMpLe LiFe: 17 May 2003 - 10:43 PM

[stannie]

it's wonderful to be friends with my ex! in fact he is about to face a whole set of challenges in his career now and i am glad to be there to support him emotionally.
as i said b4 in tis forum, my bf n my ex are close friends so no problems at all

to my ex: " it's weird to leave msg here but hey just want to let u know that we are always here for u take great care of yourself and please go to sleep now! it's kind of getting late! yeah!? "

[SMURF78]

Hmmm.....Toking abt our ex.....I still remember very clearly how we met!!!! Initially, my ex with his fren n I took the escalator in the opposite direction n we exchangeg glaces. Ten minutes later, i saw my fren who also knows my ex n my fren told me tat my ex wants to know me n whether do i want to give my ex my hp no. I told my fren if my ex wants the no, then give it to him lor.....

1 week later, my ex called me to chat for a few days b 4 meeting up n on the day we met up, he's going to take his basic theory in queenstown n we arranged to meet there. I waited for him from 7.30pm-9pm at the coffee shop near the test centre n i'm holding his school bag+file. At 9pm after his test, we went to city hall to have dinner. After dinner, we took a slow walk down to tanjong pagar n we find a quiet place to sit down for a chat.

During the chat, i find tat i like him more n more..... We chatted for abt 4 hours n by the time we decided to go home, it's ard 3am already. We took a cab together back home as it's on the way. He sent me home first as i live nearer to tanjong pagar n when i reach home, i sms him tat i reach home already. After my shower at home, i didn't go to sleep yet as i'm waiting for his call. At abt 3.45am, he called n we tok for another half an hour. Within the half an hour, we r still considering whether want to get attached with each other or not. Finally, b 4 we hanged up, i ask him whether want to get attached or not n without hestisitation, he agreed.

[Kaworu]

My ex bf is always jealous when im with my str8 friends....he doesn't like me talking to other guys and even girls....so we always quarrel abt that....but im the type that likes freedom....so in the end i decided to broke with him.....if he had let me have a little freedom....maybe we'll last longer....but i was happy while it lasted.....
anyway.....S*m**l if u happen to see this.....im telling u that don't be like that to ur next bf.....anyway im going NS soon le.....good luck to whatever u do

[kitboi]

QUOTE (Gucci @ 30 Apr 2003, 12:37 PM)

".....Yes, i am a flirtatious guy, but i'm still not an unfaithful guy..." apa jer.......no meaning rite?

budden ..

I'm an OUTRAGEOUS flirt ... but but but .. I faithful to him wan worr .

.. 5 years, 1 month and 20 days liao ..



so GOT meaning wan ... serious .. really got meaning wan ..

my ex(es) ?

all still good frens .. except 1 ... but he was an idiot .. so cannot count ..

[boyrage]

*pats kondash*

It's not as bad as it is k?

[Kondash80]

The funny thing is....I just met my ex earlier on the train. He was with a group of friends. Became more tanned and energetic and cheerful. Guess I really wasn't good enough for him. How he suffered with me....

[Xiaoyu]

QUOTE (arguzia @ 4 May 2003, 12:01 AM)

hmmmm...... *muses* my ex.. well actually thinking back of the times we had, its nice! i sure am surprised tat anyone can ta-han me for soooooo long.... fond memories i will have of the times we have, definately! he's whole hearted towards me and really pours in a lot of effort into making our r/s works..... i always feels very comfy around him, esp when he fusses over me at times erh, but life goes on! i'm juz glad that we r still remain friends!

i am really happy to hear tat... its really comforting after half a yr since we broke off... at least i get to noe more abt how ya feel abt us... well... these memories together with u will be tightly kept in my heart never to be erased...

take care of yourself during the 2 mths in the states... will miss you... *hugz* bon voyage... love ya...

[arguzia]

hmmmm......

*muses*
my ex.. well actually thinking back of the times we had, its nice!
i sure am surprised tat anyone can ta-han me for soooooo long....
fond memories i will have of the times we have, definately!

he's whole hearted towards me and really pours in a lot of effort into making our r/s works..... i always feels very comfy around him, esp when he fusses over me at times

erh, but life goes on!
i'm juz glad that we r still remain friends!

[Xiaoyu]

my ex bf?? hmmm... a pretty nice guy i should say... caring in one way or another but other than he is someone who seems to be a bit more outstanding than the others... think he will be a very good husband lah... i think... kinda miss the good old days man... but well... life has to move on lah... still has fond memories though...

take care man!!

[Phoenyx]

QUOTE (silver eagle @ 1 May 2003, 06:16 PM)

Phoenyx, i agree with u... but sometimes it's really hard to get over yr EX, esp he is someone u still deeply in love or is yr very ideal kind of guy u want that can make u live happily ever after I believe most of the time, u will always compare yr EX with those guys u are with and eventually u still prefer yr EX more... 1st love hard to forget?

True... but is there any point to it?

I have memories too, but anyway he's a prick and I moved on as well...

[Gucci]

heLLo Sirius:
4 pairs of eyes saw wat that thing did that night, all of them tellin me the same old thing when i kpo kpo ask them, so wat do u think the accuracy of the source?

QUOTE

Phoenyx Posted on 1 May 2003, 12:07 PM -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Shouldn't we all be moving on and ahead instead of commiserating and lament about ex boyfriends??

I agree with BaiBai.
well, i think sometimes when we r bored, ex-bf is a gd topic to 'discuss and share abt' ahahahah

[De.]

QUOTE (Phoenyx @ 1 May 2003, 12:07 PM)

Shouldn't we all be moving on and ahead instead of commiserating and lament about ex boyfriends??

Yeah..
I find that when someone falls in love with someone they go 'crazy' when their special someone leaves/breaks up whatsoever.
I never felt that way though

[silver...]

Phoenyx, i agree with u... but sometimes it's really hard to get over yr EX, esp he is someone u still deeply in love or is yr very ideal kind of guy u want that can make u live happily ever after

I believe most of the time, u will always compare yr EX with those guys u are with and eventually u still prefer yr EX more...

1st love hard to forget?