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California Fitness Trainer scold member "fucking gay"

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Posted 03 January 2012 - 11:04 PM

i just feel very sorry for rainingeveryday...for having to go thro' these saga .
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Posted 03 January 2012 - 10:05 PM

u mean this is not resolved yet ?

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Posted 21 December 2011 - 04:47 AM

View Postmithrandir, on 19 December 2011 - 11:15 AM, said:

i caught on late :

i am very sadden by this. i dont pay good money to join a gym to be ridicule and abuse! joining a gym is a lifestyle of sort, besides working out to attain a sexy physique, i would like to make some friends, gay or straight, and also to enjoy the memberships privileges of some spa facilities (ie steam room, jacuzzi, private swimming pool etc etc), and to hang out on lazy wkend afternoon as well...

dear rainin' pls leave CF... it is not good for you anymore. the mental torture alone is bad for you.

i'll also NOT CONSIDER CF from now now, ever!

Maybe by catching on late you didn't follow the whole saga. Rainingeveryday had plenty of opportunity to do something positive about the alleged insult he received. Instead he did nothing but write some emails to CF and with the tail between his legs he let the CF guys walk all over him.

I would be the first to advise to drop CF, but it has to be for the right reasons.

First, consider the reasons to go to a gym: to have a place to do aerobic and weight training that has all the necessary machines in good condition, with sufficient availability and space (not congested), adequate auxiliary facilities like locker room, showers, and that is open at the hours it is convenient to use it.

Steam room, jacuzzi, swimming pool, personal trainers, child care, smiling and friendly staff, etc. etc. are "extras" that may not add much value to the place, depending on each person's interests, but in general of little or no value.

Unfriendly personnel who is hostile, homophobic, elitist, etc. etc. is NOT a reason to leave a place. Instead, it's an opportunity to become assertive and self-confident.

If you look back in this thread you can read all the suggestions and advice DailyRaining received over how to handle his situation, which he could not live up to because of his weakness. Hereby lies the root of the problem :(
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Posted 20 December 2011 - 08:59 PM

View Postmithrandir, on 19 December 2011 - 11:15 AM, said:

i caught on late :

i am very sadden by this. i dont pay good money to join a gym to be ridicule and abuse! joining a gym is a lifestyle of sort, besides working out to attain a sexy physique, i would like to make some friends, gay or straight, and also to enjoy the memberships privileges of some spa facilities (ie steam room, jacuzzi, private swimming pool etc etc), and to hang out on lazy wkend afternoon as well...

dear rainin' pls leave CF... it is not good for you anymore. the mental torture alone is bad for you.

i'll also NOT CONSIDER CF from now now, ever!


I was tied down by CF as my membership has been prepaid years ago. I still left a few more years of prepaid membership. If I leave CF, they will win as I will lose my money. And why should I leave CF when they are in the wrong.

I hope that all of you will not prepaid any form of membership because if anything happen, it will be difficult to get out and they won't let you get out easily as they are "professional" in this area. According to a newspaper article, CASE received hundred of complains about CF each year.
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Posted 20 December 2011 - 09:47 AM

View Postrainingeveryday, on 30 October 2011 - 05:36 PM, said:

Recently, I was at that gym and was looking at the front and side mirrors to see whether my posture was correct when lifting the dumbbell. To my horror, that guy who has the history of scolding member "f**king gay" saw me and flexed his bicep a few times behind his male client in front of the mirror that I was using too.

Can't believe that he show off in front of me and his client.

It's sad you are so wishy-washy, with such lack of self-esteem and assertiveness. You should do something about it. Please don't give the impression that being gay is to be like that. :(

"HE" flexed his bicep a few times behind his male client in front of the mirror you were looking at? Surely the Singapore penal code does not have anything against that.

In response you should have grabbed your balls (if you have any) in a moderate way but in the gesture any guy interprets correctly as "suck my cock". You could even stick out your tongue at him. What can he do about that?

The day you will be able to do any of the above and laugh internally at the guy, he will become a complete loser.
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Posted 19 December 2011 - 11:15 AM

i caught on late :

i am very sadden by this. i dont pay good money to join a gym to be ridicule and abuse! joining a gym is a lifestyle of sort, besides working out to attain a sexy physique, i would like to make some friends, gay or straight, and also to enjoy the memberships privileges of some spa facilities (ie steam room, jacuzzi, private swimming pool etc etc), and to hang out on lazy wkend afternoon as well...

dear rainin' pls leave CF... it is not good for you anymore. the mental torture alone is bad for you.

i'll also NOT CONSIDER CF from now now, ever!
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Posted 05 November 2011 - 11:44 PM

It's time to give up membership with CFC. :bye:

Try other gyms. Nowadays there are smaller boutique gyms who have friendly staff and trainers, and who are genuinely interested in health and fitness, not there to make fun or scold their gym members.

some that i google ...
www.skyfitness.com.sg/
www.physicalabuse.com.sg/
www.goldsgym.com.sg/
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Posted 30 October 2011 - 05:36 PM

Recently, I was at that gym and was looking at the front and side mirrors to see whether my posture was correct when lifting the dumbbell. To my horror, that guy who has the history of scolding member "f**king gay" saw me and flexed his bicep a few times behind his male client in front of the mirror that I was using too.

Can't believe that he show off in front of me and his client.

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Posted 05 August 2011 - 08:03 PM

View PostWestman, on Jul 16 2011, 02:20 PM, said:

I wish to share with all trevvy users of an unpleasant incident that I encountered with Cali staff on Saturday, 16 July 2011, at around 12pm. I was leaving the Raffles Cali club and waiting for the lift. The Senior Trainer (Pradnip, if I did not remember his name wrongly), was also waiting for the lift with his friends. When the lift arrived, as he was still chatting with his friends, my friend and I went in first and started to close the door. Pradnip then pressed the lift button again and the doors reopened but he did not enter and went for another lift despite knowing that the doors had reopened. Though we were irritated by his actions, we did not say anything. My friend, also a member of Cali, proceeded to show me his iphone screen. I asked my friend "What?". Suddenly, Pradnip used his hand to block the door and proceeded to ask us in a threatening manner, "Why did you just scold me FUCK?" My friend and I were shocked to the core and were speechless and puzzled for a few seconds before I told him matter-of-factly that I DID NOT say that.

He looked alittle taken aback by my response but did not even APOLOGISE after knowing that he had wrongly accused the two of us. I am VERY UPSET by the fact that I am a paying customer of California Fitness and I am reprimanded by YOUR STAFF within the GYM premises while he is wearing the California POLO TEE. May I ask if this is the service standard that California allows for members to be treated this way ??? I am very SHOCKED as I have never encountered such service in my entire life (not that I demand to be treated like a king). Having said that, service from California has never been great anyway, as I had previously been given nothing but silence after drafting emails to the previous logistics manager of Raffles Cali to tell them that I had personally seen soap dispensers on the floor of showering cubicles without the cover (and this was during the H1N1 period!) and shower stalls with even the metal bracket missing and there was even a period of time when some stalls dont even supply hot water.

I will carbon copy this entire paragraph to other competitor gym fitness chains in Singapore and also to the newsapapers, and I SINCERELY HOPE YOU WILL PROVIDE SOME FEEDBACK AND ANSWER because I had been treated with nothing but SILENCE once before. (CC True Fitness, True Yoga, Pure Fitness, Forums etc)

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Could Westman update us about the incident he encountered?
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Posted 02 August 2011 - 11:44 AM

At the end of the day, I believe this is a battle that the person in question has to be willing to fight all the way. In my opinion, I feel that an apology on Cali's part may not be sufficient. The staff needs to make a private apology face to face with the customer. And the fact that Cali refused to tell what has been done internally is unacceptable.

However, at the end of the day, as long as the person involved feel that enough has been done. Then so be it. Just my two cents worth.
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Posted 02 August 2011 - 10:39 AM

View Postrainingeveryday, on Aug 1 2011, 09:02 PM, said:

What outcome?

California Fitness wrote in the second email reply that I have posted earlier the type of actions that CF has taken. However, California Fitness did want to reveal the internal actions taken.

In the end, I didn't ask for any compensation or get any compensation as I decided to move on since CF has apologised in the first email and show some sincerely in the second email. In addition with more than 17,000 views after posting in STOMP and Trevvy, I think alot of people are aware of California Fitness service and quality of staff. So I feel that, in some ways, justice has been done.
It is strange that bigbulge asked me back the same question that I have asked him in my earlier post.

Look like bigbulge, who know Mr K and California Fitness, either did not know the answer or do not want to reveal what internal actions California Fitness have taken since CF did not want to tell me.


so they refuse to tell u.. and u just let it as such? I tell u.. the action is NOTHING
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Posted 02 August 2011 - 06:12 AM

View PostJoystick, on Aug 1 2011, 10:02 PM, said:

glad to hear its a happy ending!!! (w00t)

glad to hear its an ENDING!!! (w00t)
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Posted 01 August 2011 - 10:02 PM

glad to hear its a happy ending!!! (w00t)

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Posted 01 August 2011 - 09:02 PM

View PostAlphaeus, on Jul 14 2011, 11:42 PM, said:

What exactly was the outcome?


What outcome?

California Fitness wrote in the second email reply that I have posted earlier the type of actions that CF has taken. However, California Fitness did want to reveal the internal actions taken.

In the end, I didn't ask for any compensation or get any compensation as I decided to move on since CF has apologised in the first email and show some sincerely in the second email. In addition with more than 17,000 views after posting in STOMP and Trevvy, I think alot of people are aware of California Fitness service and quality of staff. So I feel that, in some ways, justice has been done.





View Postbigbulge, on Jul 23 2011, 02:07 PM, said:

Could rainingeveryday tell us what type of actions that CF has taken blahblahblah since California Fitness refuse to reveal the internal actions taken.


It is strange that bigbulge asked me back the same question that I have asked him in my earlier post.

Look like bigbulge, who know Mr K and California Fitness, either did not know the answer or do not want to reveal what internal actions California Fitness have taken since CF did not want to tell me.

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Posted 01 August 2011 - 08:40 PM

View PostWestman, on Jul 16 2011, 02:20 PM, said:

I wish to share with all trevvy users of an unpleasant incident that I encountered with Cali staff on Saturday, 16 July 2011, at around 12pm. I was leaving the Raffles Cali club and waiting for the lift. The Senior Trainer (Pradnip, if I did not remember his name wrongly), was also waiting for the lift with his friends. When the lift arrived, as he was still chatting with his friends, my friend and I went in first and started to close the door. Pradnip then pressed the lift button again and the doors reopened but he did not enter and went for another lift despite knowing that the doors had reopened. Though we were irritated by his actions, we did not say anything. My friend, also a member of Cali, proceeded to show me his iphone screen. I asked my friend "What?". Suddenly, Pradnip used his hand to block the door and proceeded to ask us in a threatening manner, "Why did you just scold me FUCK?" My friend and I were shocked to the core and were speechless and puzzled for a few seconds before I told him matter-of-factly that I DID NOT say that.

He looked alittle taken aback by my response but did not even APOLOGISE after knowing that he had wrongly accused the two of us. I am VERY UPSET by the fact that I am a paying customer of California Fitness and I am reprimanded by YOUR STAFF within the GYM premises while he is wearing the California POLO TEE. May I ask if this is the service standard that California allows for members to be treated this way ??? I am very SHOCKED as I have never encountered such service in my entire life (not that I demand to be treated like a king). Having said that, service from California has never been great anyway, as I had previously been given nothing but silence after drafting emails to the previous logistics manager of Raffles Cali to tell them that I had personally seen soap dispensers on the floor of showering cubicles without the cover (and this was during the H1N1 period!) and shower stalls with even the metal bracket missing and there was even a period of time when some stalls dont even supply hot water.

I will carbon copy this entire paragraph to other competitor gym fitness chains in Singapore and also to the newsapapers, and I SINCERELY HOPE YOU WILL PROVIDE SOME FEEDBACK AND ANSWER because I had been treated with nothing but SILENCE once before. (CC True Fitness, True Yoga, Pure Fitness, Forums etc)

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If you do a internet search, you will know more about California Fitness service and staff.

At least you are more lucky than me and the staff didn't use the word "f**king gay" on you and your friend.


I have helped to post your experience in the STOMP forum under "Talkback" section in my thread titled California Fitness Trainer scolded member "fu*king gay".
Callifornia Fitness Trainer scolded member "fu*king gay"

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Posted 23 July 2011 - 02:07 PM

Could rainingeveryday tell us what type of actions that CF has taken blahblahblah since California Fitness refuse to reveal the internal actions taken.



View Postrainingeveryday, on Jun 29 2011, 10:06 PM, said:

So it is confirmed that bigbulge know Mr K in his reply.

Could bigbulge tell us what type of internal actions that CF has taken against Mr K and Miss A since California Fitness refuse to reveal the internal actions taken.

就他妈你个贱(和谐)货在个人表演!
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Posted 16 July 2011 - 02:20 PM

I wish to share with all trevvy users of an unpleasant incident that I encountered with Cali staff on Saturday, 16 July 2011, at around 12pm. I was leaving the Raffles Cali club and waiting for the lift. The Senior Trainer (Pradnip, if I did not remember his name wrongly), was also waiting for the lift with his friends. When the lift arrived, as he was still chatting with his friends, my friend and I went in first and started to close the door. Pradnip then pressed the lift button again and the doors reopened but he did not enter and went for another lift despite knowing that the doors had reopened. Though we were irritated by his actions, we did not say anything. My friend, also a member of Cali, proceeded to show me his iphone screen. I asked my friend "What?". Suddenly, Pradnip used his hand to block the door and proceeded to ask us in a threatening manner, "Why did you just scold me FUCK?" My friend and I were shocked to the core and were speechless and puzzled for a few seconds before I told him matter-of-factly that I DID NOT say that.

He looked alittle taken aback by my response but did not even APOLOGISE after knowing that he had wrongly accused the two of us. I am VERY UPSET by the fact that I am a paying customer of California Fitness and I am reprimanded by YOUR STAFF within the GYM premises while he is wearing the California POLO TEE. May I ask if this is the service standard that California allows for members to be treated this way ??? I am very SHOCKED as I have never encountered such service in my entire life (not that I demand to be treated like a king). Having said that, service from California has never been great anyway, as I had previously been given nothing but silence after drafting emails to the previous logistics manager of Raffles Cali to tell them that I had personally seen soap dispensers on the floor of showering cubicles without the cover (and this was during the H1N1 period!) and shower stalls with even the metal bracket missing and there was even a period of time when some stalls dont even supply hot water.

I will carbon copy this entire paragraph to other competitor gym fitness chains in Singapore and also to the newsapapers, and I SINCERELY HOPE YOU WILL PROVIDE SOME FEEDBACK AND ANSWER because I had been treated with nothing but SILENCE once before. (CC True Fitness, True Yoga, Pure Fitness, Forums etc)

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Posted 16 July 2011 - 01:03 PM

View Post Veil_of_Ignorance, on Jul 16 2011, 12:55 PM, said:

Where got?

At the beginning:
Foreplay---> intense petting---> first drop of precum appeared
---> precum dripping like a faucet---> building to a climax

Then, at the ending: 
Exercise cut. No ejaculation, hence no climax. Blue-balls syndrome emerged.

In short, the whole process was very anti-climax.


After reading all the other posts, I agree with you.

You are right! :P

So anti-climax ! >_<
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Posted 16 July 2011 - 11:55 AM

View PostMR KIASU KING, on Jul 15 2011, 08:42 PM, said:

The outcome?

Ejeculated and cum lor :blush:


Where got?

At the beginning:
Foreplay---> intense petting---> first drop of precum appeared
---> precum dripping like a faucet---> building to a climax

Then, at the ending: 
Exercise cut. No ejaculation, hence no climax. Blue-balls syndrome emerged.

In short, the whole process was very anti-climax.
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Posted 15 July 2011 - 08:42 PM

View PostAlphaeus, on Jul 15 2011, 12:42 AM, said:

What exactly was the outcome?


The outcome?

Ejeculated and cum lor :blush:
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